Well I'm hear to ask you this. Does that sound like a merciful God to you? In Nehemiah 9:31 it says, "...for thou art a gracious and merciful God."
The thing is it's not just heaven and hell. It's not just fire and brimstone or puppy dogs and flowers. Because if God was not merciful, then He would yet to be God.
But here is how life after death really is. You have the Spirit World, which consists of spirit paradise and spirit prison. Then you have judgment, where our Father in heaven will open your Book of Life and judge you based on the works you have done. Then after we are judged we will be placed into one of three places. The Telestial Kingdom, Terrestrial Kingdom, and the Celestial Kingdom.
Now let me explain a little about these kingdoms.
Telestial Kingdom- Are for those who continue in their sins and do not repent. They will receive a place in the telestial kingdom
Terrestrial Kingdom- Is for people who refuse to accept the gospel of Jesus Christ but who live honorable lives. They will receive a place in the terrestrial kingdom.
Celestial Kingdom- Our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ reside in the celestial kingdom. If you live according to the gospel of Jesus Christ and are cleansed from sin by the Atonement, you will receive a place in this, the highest kingdom. You will live in God’s presence and know complete joy.
Now I don't know about you but I want to to the the Celestial one. But even if we have been placed into one of the other two kingdoms we will still know happiness and joy. Because we will be comfortable where we have been placed. Look at it this way. How would you feel living next door to God knowing all of the bad things you've done in your life. I know I would feel extremely uncomfortable. So this is why he has given us these three kingdoms. To be happy within our own surroundings. I mean bikers hang out at biker bars because they like the atmosphere, and they like the people they are with. Well if you are someone who hates bars and hates bikers you wouldn't be comfortable there now would you?
Now some of you are thinking, "Well what about hell? What about damnation?". Well I'll tell you. Do you know what the definition of 'Dam' is? It means to hold back or to obstruct something. Meaning, to stop progression. By being placed into either the 'Telestial Kingdom' or the 'Terrestrial Kingdom' you will be damned. You will stop progression towards God. In the Celestial Kingdom though, that is where we will be able to learn and to progress to become more like our Father in heaven.
So now that I've explained the Three Kingdoms, let me get to the Spirit World. Now I like to think of the Spirit World as a kind of place that is sectioned into two parts. Spirit Paradise and Spirit Prison. In my personal opinion there will be no physical boundary between Prison and Paradise. But it will be a Prison and a Paradise within ones self. If you have lived a good and and honorable life and you feel like you have done well on earth, you will be in a personal state of Paradise. But if you lived a horrible, evil, rotten life. You will be in a personal state of Prison.
Remember earlier when I was talk about people who never got the chance to hear or even learn about
Christ? Well maybe you're wondering what happens to them. Those people get the chance in the Spirit World to learn about Jesus Christ. They also get the chance whether to accept Him or not. When the time of judgement has come, no one will say "Well I've never heard of this Jesus guy."Everyone will get the opportunity to hear His name and learn about Him.
Now from what I have written, does this sound like a fair and merciful God to you? I believe it is. Because a
merciful God is one who loves continually. A merciful God doesn't condemn people to hell for trying to strive to be good, and yet falling short. He has given us these three kingdoms for our happiness. This plan that he has for us has two names. One is the Plan of Salvation, the other is the Plan of Happiness. "Adam fell that men might be; and men are, that they might have joy." (2 Nephi 2:25)